For the last week of Advent, let’s look at love in a practical way with the love language.
Love is at the heart of the holiday and is the reason for all the celebration.
Let’s discuss the different ways someone can feel loved according to the book ‘The 5 Love Languages’ by Gary Chapman.
Receiving Gifts
Gifts are a classic of the season which is convenient if it’s your language. Although it matters more to you that the gift is heartfelt and on point.
On a daily basis, it doesn’t mean spending tons of money every day.
Find small gestures to show thoughtfulness.
Quality Time
Also on the agenda of the season is quality time, meaning uninterrupted conversations and one-on-one moments.
Create special moments like taking a scenic walk or baking with your loved one or playing a game together.
The possibilities are endless as long as you give them your full attention at the given time.
Words of Affirmation
If words of affirmation is your love language then you probably need to hear encouragement and appreciations to feel loved.
If you’re trying to make someone with that love language feel loved, affirm them and listen to them actively.
To make it even more special, leave them notes or send them a card.
Words are important, use them wisely.
Acts of Service
This love language is about helping others. You feel loved if someone goes out of their way to help you with chores or cook you dinner or breakfast.
Offer them your help, try to lighten their load.
If this is not your love language it might feel odd to do chores to show love. But even doing some laundry for the person will make them feel so special.
Physical Touch
If this is your love language, you live for non-verbal communication.
Hugs, kisses, cuddles, massages are all good ways to show love.
Again, you don’t have to go crazy here. But subtle gestures like holding hands will get noticed.
